whoa, this week was overwhelming
I search for validation in all aspects of my life. 
I talk a lot about friends coming to me searching for advice, I do this because it opens my mind to rethink things in my personal life.

I was walking out of my office tonight and a friend came looking for advice, she so wants to be loved. She has been single for a very long time and ready to date but not ready to emotionally....today is very different from even 5 yrs ago next to a decade.  Our society is changing so much there are so many expectations of a woman but no one cares how a man represents himself.
This is were the confusion comes in...It's very difficult for women to understand what men think and what they feel.
Even when a man has feelings he is NEVER going to tell you because the man feels that that makes them look weak and vulnerable.  And at the same time here we are as women.............emotional wanting to express our deepest feelings, our needs our wants and to the man, it is irrelevant because it's nothing like what they want. 

And that's ok............women from venus men from mars.......it is that exact and that simple. Women and men are so different that it will always cause a rift in the relationship,

  Women aren't simple, that is a fact, but men create the issues we have to over come. 
men create the judgement that creates a woman second guess them selves...but they just don't know they do. when a woman is confident and open that scares men away.  When women are in charge that makes the man feel inferior so they lash out with negative energy.
By no means do I take blame away from the women....we are just as guilty. 
But we need to remember we are to live not pout......we are here to experience all aspects of life and Live to feel good.  To be happy and to successful.  Man or women needs to move in that directions. 
Don't let anyone hold you down, experience what you love and endure what you feel.

It's times to live!