Does it really matter?

In today's world with all the social media we are allowed to voice our opinion more freely which sometimes can create a inviting healthy debate, or nasty words being expressed  The advances in technology has also allowed others to utilize the internet for other things such as research, 

In college there are major rules regarding plagiarism...zero tolerance and there is a tool used called trintitin to measure your wording in your work to eliminate possible plagiarism. I for one do not believe in that program because when i was attending college my professor and I always had different scores, it was not a dependable measure when it came to decision making. 

So having said that, what is really the make of your own words?  How far can you go before you are made to feel like you did something wrong?  Recently there was a debate on a thread of mine with people who have never met each other regarding the speech Melania Trump gave.  It isn't a secret that she's being ridiculed for what she said in her speech  but who are we to really judge her, 

I automatically judged before really thinking it thought and the discussion on the thread made me really open my eyes. Everyone was right...............

Some say she didn't write that speech, how do we know she didn't?  Why do we automatically think she is a bad human being for using words that someone else used?  I can tell you I have used words over the years that someone else had used, i stole it because I thought it was a good use of a phrase and/or wording.   How do we know she didn't feel like those words were a great way to express how she feels and wanted to share something she believed in?  Is it really plagerism in this context?  Is it really that big of a deal that we have to use her as an example to teach our kids "what not to do"?  Or get mad and frustrated at the other people voicing their opinion?  It can be a great lesson to teach out kids--"Look children, this can be misconstrued and be seen as plagiarism, however, it's what she believes in and she stood her ground" 

that is the lesson I want to teach my daughter...

These are really some questions that came up in the conversation that I have taken serious and has given me the opportunity to rethink my judgement.   I am changing my view because of some things that were said in this thread--

Mitch Kilmer What is wrong with repeating words that someone else spoke, if you believe in them? I really doubt anyone doesn't agree with these statements.

 

I agree with Mitch, why were we so quick to judge her because she used someone else's words?

Kimberly Wright Knowles She claimed she wrote most of it tho. So she lies and has idiots working for her.

Maybe she did write them all, we don't know who exactly wrote the speech, It is very similar to Michelle Obama's but how do we know that she didn't use the same words because she believes in them? we don't know ---what I now would say is I probably would of said something such as----"Michelle Obama said -----and I feel the same way"  however how do we know she didn't know ANYTHING?  I guess another question is what is the big deal....?

Monica Jo Kennedy I think they both plagiarized it from My Mom and Dad.....they said the same exact words....come on folks....your word is your bond has been a statement for centuries. ...the people that fall into the media trap.....everyone is a bit to sensitive now a days.....ridiculous

Monica had a great point, we all repeat what we've learned growing up and have never been used of plagerism...? Why would she if it's her belief?  

I think at this point we need to stop and look at what is really happening and if all of this is really worth the time we've all invested, do you believe she means those words? I do and if she used the same words as Michelle well, who are we to blame her for not believing in what she said?  

Shame on us.....

You go girl!! Melania Trump.  And Monica...You were right, she's pretty hot! 

http://www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/features/a13529/melania-trump-interview-0216/

Life Time friends- Melanie and Trina

Holy Cow, I have Life long friends!!

So check this out...the morning of  July 3rd this year we had just woken up and we're enjoying the MT air and chilling in our RV........all the sudden there is s strange woman knocking on our door and says "DEANA is this YOU" LMAO

I almost died but when I realized who she was (took 2 seconds) I jumped up said OMG and ran out the door. My husband was probably wonder WTF it's 8:30 in the morning!!  Best surprise EVER!!

Melanie my dearest Melanie........out of EVERYONE in my life you and I experienced triumphs we probably don't want to relive...things we regret and embrace at the same time. You are such an outstanding individual, strong, determined, not letting anyone get in your way, kinda like how we were growing up...you have come so far and  accomplished so much I am so excited for you and your future. You are going to be greater than you ever imagined.

And then we have My Trina.....she who I listened to more than she thinks I did.... who I admired just as much and envied at the same time growing up.  I learned that the weekends we'd go out as teens the next week she'd be grounded. She told me that pattern happened quit frequently when we were teens~

 It was great to spend time with her and bond.  My sister was there with us and laughed at how we acted the same way together on these days as we did 27 yrs ago.  we laughed and just had a swell of a time.

Trina spent 3 days with us, my mom LOVED having her,  I hated thinking I was going to have to leave again,,  but we embraced what we could. We even took a nap together............shhhhh don't tell anyone!

We stayed up with the girls the first night  until 1am playing UNO and making shadow puppets on the wall! Most fun I have had in forever. I miss you tremendously Trina and Hope you can come to AZ soon!!

Slumming in Butte

On this night our goal was to experience all of Butte's historical places to drink...historical and modern I guess. In addition to the Scoop, we went to Pissers in Walkerville, MT and that was pretty cool, they have Tons of Nascar memorabilia all over and I ended up running into an old friend Shawn K. Lewis.  Not sure at this point how my husband was feeling through all of this. I know my dad was having a great time...  If the situation was reversed, not sure  how I would feel either. But he got a good taste of where I grew up!! I even bought a Pisser's  sweat shirt. I'm excited to wear it this fall/winter when we're on the bike!~ Right now it's 109 here in Yuma so sweat shirts are put away.

The Party Palace was exciting as well, I remember this being a drug store when I was growing up, so for the corner to be a different environment was exciting to learn. 

I ended up reuniting with 2 old friends, it was funny how people recognized me but wasn't sure! There was one who we just kept looking at each other and thinking i know him i know her...........well we did indeed know each other from high school and he knew my sisters. it was fun experiencing all of this stuff.  Today it's a bar I can relate too, It's fun, great people and maybe a bit dangerous for some people but it was great to be there, I just wish i could of met with more people I knew who are still in Butte. 

From the Party Palace we walked up the HUGE MOUNTAIN to Maloneys! Yes to me it was a Mountain because we do not have hills in Yuma, AZ.  I haven't walked Butte streets for years and forgot how challenging it is.  That sounds bad but you all get it.....

At Maloneys I met Charlie, he was super awesome. When I asked to take his picture and to pose he wasn't having it so I expressed that I would just photograph at random, he was ok with that as long as he didn' t  know.  

I LOVED Maloneys, it was so much of my heritage..........then I realized they had thongs for sale....I struggled with that! HA  thank you Charlie for being so awesome!!   You can see the items for sale behind charlie......Aside from that they had some great decor in the bathrooms (wink)

All in all we succeeded to have a TON of fun! thanks to all of who who I reconnected with and the bartenders who put up with my shenanigans. I had a blast! 

The SCOOP in Butte, MT

For the 4th of July this year I went home to Butte, MT and spend almost a week there seeing friends and family. It was an amazing trip for me mostly because my husband was able to finally see where I grew up. But more than anything, it brought me back to my roots and I was able to understand and appreciate more where I grew up and where I am from, I am a Butte Girl and that I will honor from this day forward.  

One thing on this trip we did was what my  mother calls slumming....it cracks me up but it sure isn't CLUBBING....So in Butte I guess it is slumming.  I slummed a lot as a teen so this night was particularly exciting for me because I not only went slumming with my husband and my dad I for the first time slummed in Butte legally. YES I slummed in Butte as a teen and got away with it!! 

Not totally proud of my teenage shenanigans but this gave me the opportunity to see where our City of Butte has come in 27 yrs.  I don't remember if I ever slummed at the SCOOP but on this night we did.  It was a great time because of the future new owner who we met.  John Anderson....

John has this dream to buy the SCOOP and bring back BUTTE...... but a more cultured to TECH Butte. He's reinvented the back where you have an outside bar and a bbq along with a volleyball court. I was impressed.  John is 26 yrs old and has a dream, a dream to make Butte Better!!  Some of you might think that building a bar better may not be the best for Butte, ...........This is the SCOOP, part of Butte everything! The SCOOP must not ever go away but be better! 

Then I looked up~~ I couldn't believe it there was signed money on the ceiling...Well I knew exactly what I needed to do....sign some money and stick it on the ceiling!! 

 This was a fabulous time and experience talking with John and I hope the best for him and his business partner! I am looking forward to returning and spending more time at the SCOOP Legally now! 

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